I am in love with the world of imagination. I love reliving the stories of others and the worlds of the past. I love immersing myself into to the stories my grandparents share. I love listening to the endless tales of people whom I care about. There is indeed, some magic about ordinary days. And there is a special joy in sharing these moments with those who care for you. Although these stories are essentially palimpsests, there is a momentary expansion of perspective, a sudden surge of empathy and a whole new side to the person, you never even thought of. Or perhaps a side that had been forgotten along the pages of time. What if some of these stories bring with them treasure troves of wisdom, which might be buried in sand someday, if not told to anyone; maybe the ingredient to save humanity from itself; maybe the purpose of life!
Chyawanpraash
Saturday, March 31, 2018
Wednesday, April 8, 2015
The Link to My KSG Performance Jan 2015
Last year I got the Best Dancer Award - which is why I got a chance to perform this year too.
Check it out peeps :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g9hxY6BRdOc&feature=youtu.be
Dance starts at 4 min 20s ... ;)
A big thanks to my parents, my Guru, grandparents :), and all others who've made this possible and been with me through The Journey!
Check it out peeps :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g9hxY6BRdOc&feature=youtu.be
Dance starts at 4 min 20s ... ;)
A big thanks to my parents, my Guru, grandparents :), and all others who've made this possible and been with me through The Journey!
Sunday, November 23, 2014
Working with the Mind - Coping with the Adverse
Power of the mind exceeds limits and breaks restricting walls set by the physical body. Harnessing this power in circumstances important to oneself, helps bring out what is best. Through the course of a Bharatanatyam tour of the US and Canada, I picked up this skill among others. A part of an ensemble of eight dancers, a sound person and a light designer, I travelled across the US and Canada to various prestigious venues this October and November. Long, tiring journeys, hotels, airports, homes of organizers and hosts, green rooms, the continuing backstage drama, pre-performance stress and pressure, packed theaters, the loud blinding beam of lights, 'state-of-the-art' stages, multiple standing ovations, unmissable post-performance adrenaline high, photo sessions with 'fans', critics, friends and colleagues, unpacking, repacking and packing off within a matter of minutes to a whole new experience - 'a life, as I began to know it'. (whaddup movie reference!)
Very often our dance company would have to perform continuously, without even a day's gap, at cities separated by huge distances. For example, we had our first show in Portland on the evening of the day we had arrived from India. Jet-lagged, with a terrible cold, I climbed up the stage and managed to pull off a decent act. The next day, after a brief stay in Washington DC, we flew to Austin for a show the same evening. We landed in Austin at around noon, collected all of 13 big suitcases from the carousel and set out to perform at five in the evening at a venue that was located a few hours away from the airport. All of us were hungry and exhausted to say the least. To share a little secret, just for your ears, one of the principal dancers of the crew had missed her flight to join us there. Therefore, the stress of covering for her was looming on our teacher's mind. Don't worry, you can breathe a sign of respite now just like all of us in the company did then when we saw her at the dressing room - she arrived well in time for the show, somehow. It was close to four by the time we reached the theater. Being our second show, we were inexperienced at slathering make-up onto our faces, doing our hairstyle and dressing up in less than an hour - usually we would take close to two! Somehow, given our constraints, we managed to go up on stage just in time - fact is, people in the US are just quite the punctual bunch unlike most audiences in India. Let me present to you the 'harsh reality' of our state at the time. We stood near the wings, in absolute darkness, with no time to warm up. Not surprisingly, even we tried to warm-up and stretch, our bodies just would not budge. And there we stood, half a minute away from getting on stage. I was getting worked up - how, in all probability, would I be able to perform for the next two hours if warming-up itself seemed a Herculean task. I breathed deep and calmed down. I had only one thing to focus on for the next two hours - my dance. Through the performance, I relied entirely on mental power to push my body - I worked with my mind and pulled off a great show.
Sunday, April 20, 2014
Latika: A Resilient Fighter
Demure and
calm, Vanthala Latikaben Patel (name changed), sat up in her tiny shanty of a
shop. Some translucent plastic boxes with plain buttered cookies and
crisps stood orderly behind an array of colorful packets of 'paan masala',
'beedi', 'gutka', 'supari' or mouth freshener and old salted chips. Two
young children, one older than the other circled Latikaben, bubbling with joy.
There were three people sitting around in that open leepan[1] shanty. They were two men
wearing discolored turbans and an old lady peculiarly robed in a pink piece of
cloth. This scene caught my eye as I, took my first few steps into and
around a beautiful village called Laxmipuram. For the next few days, I
was going to be in this village situated in Munching Put Mandal, along with 12 of
my classmates as a part of Experiential Learning. Before having second
thoughts, I knew I had found the right person. With a stole wrapped
loosely around my head, I walked silently and sat next to her. Unaware
that we shared the same language, I did my job of observing, smiling and
understanding the activities in the shanty. They conversed with ease in a
tribal dialect of Oriya, smiling and laughing frequently. Both the
children chuckled on seeing me there and I too threw smiles back at them.
After a few minutes of silent observation, the strong stares that hung
over me seemed to weaken and I gathered the courage to say a few words.
In Hindi, knowing that I was about to turn myself into a laughing stock,
I asked the lady whether those children were hers. She gladly replied in
Hindi, saying that they were. I was surprised at the fact that she had a
good grip over Hindi. The fact that she knew Hindi, served as an
incentive for me to flow into a conversation with her. I asked where she
was from. She said she was from Gujarat. This took me by surprise,
completely. What is the probability of finding a Gujarati woman living
with her family in a remote tribal village in Andhra Pradesh, largely isolated
from the outside world? Highly minuscule. The stars connected that
very moment and I knew then, that I had found the right person for my
psychology case study. Vanthala Latikaben Patel was the chosen one.
I felt so lucky for having found a person from my birth state. Over
the next few days of my stay in Laxmipuram, I rejoiced and felt at peace in
Mother Nature's lap. My friendship and rapport with Latikaben too,
blossomed. I would sneak off early in the morning at four with Latikaben
to a serene spring in the village. Walking back with heavy pots bearing
water on our heads, we would talk about each other's lives. While
Latikaben gracefully moved with two heavy loads on top of her head, I would be,
more often than not, struggling to keep the water from spilling and maintain my
balance. It was not easy. After some field work during the day, I
would once again slip off to her home, which was right beside the CCN
(Community Coordination Network) Sahyog's campus. The reason for such enthusiasm was the story
of Latikaben’s life, itself.
Latikaben
is a mother of three and breadwinner of her family. She is married to Karanbhai, who belongs to
Laxmipuram village, Andhra Pradesh. Her
eldest child, Pratiksha, is 10 years old and is studying in grade seven at a
tribal boarding school in Munching Put.
Pratiksha visits home only during winter and summer holidays. The other two children are Yuvraj (7) and
Prem (4). Both of them stay with her, at
home.
Born around
25 years ago in a small village in Ankleshwar, Gujarat, this mother of three,
was the eldest of three siblings. When
she was very young, her mother left her father and married another man. At that time, Latika, who had attended school
only for a day, never saw the gates of her school again. Out of abject poverty, her father requested
her to look after household work and her younger siblings, so that he could go
out and earn for the family. Her younger
brother and sister, Sanjaybhai and Gitaben, both went to school but dropped out
after seventh grade. Sanjaybhai now
works as a driver in Ankleshwar and Gitaben continues to reside in the village
with a family of her own. Latikaben,
with tears in her eyes, said that she regrets not going to school. “I was so interested and excited to go to
school and study. But I never
could. It was not possible, at any cost. Had I gone to school and studied well, I
would still be in Gujarat today, having enough money in my hands.” When Latikaben was around fifteen years old,
she married Karanbhai. Their story is
quite unusual. Karanbhai hailed from a
poverty-stricken family in Malkangiri village, which is situated on the Andhra
Pradesh – Odisha border. After having
studied up to grade three, he dropped out of school so that he could earn wages
and support his family. A firm called
Shilpa Cements recruited him as a laborer and after having worked till his late
teens with them, they shifted their factory to Ankleshwar, Gujarat. Karanbhai too relocated to Ankleshwar to
continue working. As fate had it,
Karanbhai and Latikaben met, fell in love and after having gained her father’s
approval, got married. They set up their
home in Ankleshwar itself and had three young children. Soon after, tragedy struck. Karanbhai met with an industrial accident and
injured his right arm. This blow left
his arm, which was very crucial to his work, disabled. Unable to sustain themselves there, the
family decided to move to Laxmipuram.
This relocation was a big blow to Latikaben and her children. Many a night Latikaben would cry to bed. Her children too would cry often. Latikaben had to deal with two blows
simultaneously. Because her husband
could no longer engage in unskilled labor, it was she who had to earn for her
family. Never before had she worked
outside her home. On top of that, she
was burdened with settling into an unknown place, with new, strange people
(very different from her folks back home), peculiar customs and a drastically
different climate. She had moved from a
warm dry desert like place to a wet, cool, rainy place. This change, she said really shook her and
took a toll on her mentally. She was
often in a state of distress, due to which she lost a lot of weight. While revealing this to me, she showed me her
blouse which appeared as if it were stitched for a heavier person – she had
thinned down greatly. This unusual
trajectory of her life was influenced by some significant events in her
life. As a young child, her mother deserting
her father, shaped her belief about a family.
At that time, she vowed to herself that she would never leave her
children, at any cost. To this day, she
has clung on to that. The second
significant event that she mentioned was when she stopped going to school. Once again, this decision taken by her father
dented her self-confidence. She has
always felt that she has missed out on studying and educating herself. Once again, she took a vow that she will make
sure that her kids never miss out on their schooling. In case of her elder daughter, Pratiksha, she
has kept her word. But it is ironical
that Yuvraj, her younger son, does not go to school regularly. This is not because the family cannot afford
it but it is because Yuvraj is uninterested in studying at school, according to
Latikaben. The births of her children,
too were significant in her life. After
going through a rough ride along the vicissitudes of life, Latikaben feels a
streak of hopelessness. Although
Karanbhai now avails a pension of 1500 rupees a month from Shilpa Cements, a
serious shortage of money has kept her and her family from visiting Gujarat,
for the last few years. Moreover, her
small family in Gujarat has, as she says, disowned her for moving to a remote
tribal village. Due to an acute lack of
facilities such as network coverage, general stores, roads and many more, she
finds it very difficult to be in touch with her sanguinary family. In fact, though she stays in a village where
some families own cows and sell milk, her family relies on milk powder that she
buys from Munching Put. This shocked me
because I have always been under the impression that tribal folk fundamentally
use natural products for day to day activities.
Using milk powder instead of natural milk for preparing their morning
tea opened my eyes to their limitations. Finally, her poor, deteriorating health keeps
her from giving her best. She was
animatedly mentioning about how she got poisoned by a snake which had slid into
her kitchen, just last month. She did
not take any allopathic medicine to treat the bite but instead relied on
traditional tribal medication that certain members of that tribe
administered. She seems alright
now. After having moved to Laxmipuram,
Latikaben feels that she has adjusted well to the customs and traditions of the
tribe. From stringent rules such as
fasting for long hours during the month of ‘Kartik’
and avoiding eating food outside her tribe to wearing a sacred thread around
her arm, she has adapted herself to certain aspects of her environment as a
fish takes to water. Her fluency in
Oriya and Telugu, languages that she never knew before, is impeccable. However, though she has attuned herself to
such rituals, she still holds on to the values she learnt back home. Though members of her husband’s tribe are
voracious eaters of meat, she remains a vegetarian. Although most women and men of that tribe
drink heavily, she stays sober. But at
the same time, members of the tribe are friendly with her and she has a prominent
role to play in celebrating festivals.
In fact, her husband, himself, used to drink heavily until recently. At this point in time, she has no dreams or aspirations
for herself. But she has many dreams for
her family. She dreams that one day, her
entire family including her own children and her siblings from Gujarat would
live under the same roof in harmony. She
strongly aspires for her children to study well, educate themselves and be
financially independent. From all our
conversations and the facts mentioned above, it is evident that Latikaben is
optimistic about her children’s education.
She has a terrific amount of determination and yet is unconditionally
caring and loving towards her little children.
In terms of material resources, neither she nor Karanbhai own farmland. But they are building a house in Laxmipuram, on
a plot beside their current residence.
This case
study has taken shape fundamentally because of Latikaben’s willingness to share
significant aspects of her life with me.
It is hard to find people who are open to sharing details of their lives
with ‘strangers’. I feel honored to have
interviewed Latikaben who did not hold back cherished details of her life which
were essential for this case study.
[1] A
structure made of cattle dung, water and dry straw. Houses are widely made of leepans in rural
India.
Sunday, March 30, 2014
The Truth Beckons Me...
I have been meaning to pen down some of my thoughts.
I have always had and will continue to have unshakable faith in the Lord. And by virtue of this faith, I have been detecting certain patterns in my life. This has only been possible because of my Lord's guidance. Over the years, these observable patterns of events that my life flows into have taught me to tune myself to them. I have an innate rhythm to flow into the myriad situations in my life. This inherent sense of rhythm has developed ever since I realized my faith in the Lord. Of course, both faith in the Divine Being and rhythm have always been ingrained in my spirit. So these patterns I was talking about organize themselves in a cycle and the cycle has been repeated several times now - as far as I can remember. I deduced that life flows in circular cycles. Starting with a high state of consciousness, as life flows through various circumstances, my state of consciousness lowers gradually but at a quick rate and then hits a deep low. During this challenging time, I struggle with raising my state of consciousness. This travail comprises of my intellect and mind trying to waver me from the duties at hand. I am swayed, instantaneously by one call of my mind. During times like these, my mind seems unsettling and distracted. The upward journey is a true challenge. In order to even embark on it, a will to do so must remain lit. Very often I find myself fall down after a few steps up. This is perhaps because my will to embark on a climb to Divine Purity is not strong enough - my will does not completely and faithfully align with my aspiration. But once I aspire for Supreme Light and Purity, once my aspiration is pure and strong, once I tolerate and accept nothing but the Divine Light and a powerful, faithful will that is much stronger than the fancies of my mind, can I truly embark on my journey upward. And slowly, unconsciously, I reach an even higher state of consciousness. The moment one is able to stop the cycle at the highest state of consciousness and remain in it or travel further up eternally, the spirit and body are enlightened. The once circular cycle opens up into one ray, stretching upward infinitely. My body, vital senses, mind and spirit glow with Divine Light - making my being a pristine instrument of the Divine Will. There are only two things which I must never forget. One is unbreakable Faith in the Supreme seated within me and around me. Second is persevering with sincerity. The Truth beckons me.
Sunday, October 27, 2013
Virasat - It is
Where the glories of the past and the victories of the future meet - that is Virasat.
The heritage of a land ancient is Virasat.
Through treacherous travails and trials, it is Virasat that never fades.
Virasat is here to stay.
Every pore and cell endlessly soaks in Virasat from birth to death.
And the soul, basking in Virasat never dies.
Virasat is here to stay.
Virasat shows us the way.
The heritage of a land ancient is Virasat.
Through treacherous travails and trials, it is Virasat that never fades.
Virasat is here to stay.
Every pore and cell endlessly soaks in Virasat from birth to death.
And the soul, basking in Virasat never dies.
Virasat is here to stay.
Virasat shows us the way.
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